How Testing Your Girlfriend Can Backfire?

Think that you can out smart a woman? Think again. Men and women are different for a reason. We coexist on this planet for ages, for a reason, and the reversal of what works may not work, and may back fire. For instance, men over 40, who have more experience dating find it their duty to put women through a test.A test? Testing your girlfriend by questioning her and expecting a response similar to yours, with the intention of ensuring she fits you 100%, because an answer that is different then yours doesn’t suffice.What a waste. Men need to screw the test, and start living life. Stop focussing on what she will do in certain scenarios and stop focussing on how she will react because women are not stupid they read you from a mile away.

Believe it or not, it amuses women to see how far men go to test you, but unfortunately what men don’t realize is that it’s also a huge turn OFF, and can backfire major time.

How does testing your girlfriend backfire?

Simple: the woman realizes she’s being tested. She may not say or admit it or act like she knows, but she does. Men, unfortunately don’t realize that when you date a smart girl who is able to catch you in your way, is going to drop you.

Don’t play games with a woman you love. Don’t play games with woman you care about. Games and tricks are for the circus, not for love. Testing your girlfriend to see if she passes the test, is juvenile, and petty.

Not only will the test backfire, but you’ll loose something you wish you never lost: true love. Someone who loved you, someone who cared about you, and someone who put up with you.

Good luck to those men out there who continue to test women they care for, to see if they fit the perfect mold- because if your already trying to see if they fit a mold, you should know intuitively they are perfect.

There’s no reason to transform to test mode and  to challenge or add miscellaneous jargon questions to trap or find an answer you are looking for; because guess what??

No two people are alike? She will have a different answer. And she will have a different opinion. She will not answer the way you expect and that’s that. Does that mean you should run? Does that mean you should end your relationship?

Absolutely not! That just means you’re being weird. Your showing insecurity, and in turn you will loose her, because no one likes to be questioned, or looked at like they are wrong- even if they are right.

Bottom line: Test who you want, when you want, how you want but realize the outcome of testing someone can lead to losing that someone. Therefore, it’s best to just except the person for who they are. They may not agree with you, or view things the same way you do, but gues what. . . That’s OK! No one is like you, and you don’t want someone that is. So, please to all the men out there over 40, don’t test your girlfriend when you’re a mature man dating and over 40.