I’m Single Now What? 6 Tips to Enter the Single Scene

I’m Single Now What? After being in a relationship for a while, and never having the freedom to explore, a newly single man or woman may begin to feel lost. You find yourself out of the relationship, and you may catch yourself asking: Now what? Are you unsure what to do now that you are newly single? Don’t worry we have the answers to confused daters who just entered the single scene.

What to do now that you are single?

1. Focus on yourself. It’s really important to take the time and focus on you. If you are just joining the single scene take time to just focus on what you can do for yourself, and how you can better yourself. Take yourself out, and enjoy some time alone.

2. Take time. Don’t rush into anything. It’s OK to take some time to think about what you want. It takes time to get over a relationship, so if you have to disconnect from friends for a bit, to try and recharge, do it. Then enter the single scene with a big bang.

3. Experiment. Experiment by going out and meeting people you never thought you would be attracted to. Try meeting as many people as possible, no matter what they look like. The single scene is about experimenting and expanding your horizons. So, meet new people, and see where it takes you.

4. Be Social. Wherever you go, be social, and meet as many people as possible. Male or female try to learn something new from everyone you meet. Don’t limit yourself to just men, or just woman, try being social with both men and women when you enter the single scene.

5. Reach out. If you have been in a relationship, and find yourself asking now what, reach out to some friends or family, spiritual leaders, or even a therapist. Sharing what you are thinking inside, with someone else can help you move forward and rid the feeling of loneliness and make entering the single scene easier.

6. Start Loving Something. You may feel a void because you are used to loving someone, now it’s time to love to do something. Find something you love to do and act upon it. Do you enjoy a sport? Do you enjoy painting? Whatever it may be, pour your love into something, so that missing element of a relationship doesn’t make you feel alone and bored.

Whether you take yourself out to dinner, or take the time to get back into the dating game, being newly single is tough. The single scene is filled with newcomers and people from all ages. Take advantage of this new experience by jumping into the single scene prepared and with a positive attitude. If you are asking yourself, what to do now that you are single, follow the tips above and make your entry in the single scene smoothe at any age.