RELATIONSHIPS OVER FIFTY

How to React to An Unexpected “I Love You” When You’re Over 50

How to React to An Unexpected “I Love You” When You’re Over 50

The three words we all wait and expect to hear when we date someone for a while, and really do love them back. However, how do you react to an “I love you” -you didn’t expect it at all?

Susan,56 writes, being a widow, over fifty, it had been so long since I’ve heard those words, that I reacted with shock, and a bit of panic. Please tell me how, or what I should have or could do now to resolve this issue?

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Why Cheapness in Behavior is NEVER Tolerated? The 5 Factors that Define Cheapness

Why Cheapness in Behavior is NEVER Tolerated? The 5 Factors that Define Cheapness

If there is one thing that a well raised individual in his/her fifties, cannot over look it is cheapness in behavior. Cheapness in behavior has nothing to do with the lack of money.

These days men and women dating and actively seeking a partner must never forget that cheapness should never be over looked.

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Why Secrets Are No Fun When You’re Over 50? Reveal Your Secrets or Not?

Why Secrets Are No Fun When You’re Over 50? Reveal Your Secrets or Not?

After age fifty, should you reveal you deepest darkest secrets?

Some couples think that unveiling secrets about what you have done before you met is a waste of time. However, after asking 50 couples who have been together for more than 15 years and 10 new couples over fifty, we came up with a very interesting mixture of results.

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We’ve Been on Three Dates & it’s her Birthday – Do I Get her a Gift? Find Out!

We’ve Been on Three Dates & it’s her Birthday – Do I Get her a Gift? Find Out!

 Dear SitAlong,

I have been dating a woman, we have been on  a total of three dates, things are going very well and her birthday is next week. Now, I am having trouble deciding if it is too soon to get her a gift . I don’t know her well enough to get her a meaningful gift because we just met. Her birthday is coming up, and I just don’t know if I should get her a gift. What do you think I should do?

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The 5 Benefits to Having Younger Friends When You’re Over 50?

The 5 Benefits to Having Younger Friends When You’re Over 50?

Finding friends can be difficult, but the truth is being over fifty should not stop you from being friends with someone younger than you. In fact, having a friend, 10 years younger  make you feel younger and have some great benefits.

Below are some 5 great benefits to having younger friends when you’re over 50:

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I’M A MAN,OVER 50, AND I’M SET IN MY WAYS. . . CAN MEN BE MORE FLEXIBLE AFTER 50?

I’M A MAN,OVER 50, AND I’M SET IN MY WAYS. . . CAN MEN BE MORE FLEXIBLE AFTER 50?

Dear SitAlong,

I have been single for a while now, and know I have  a set routine of doing things my way. However, I know if I want to meet someone, I will have to change. This is going to be difficult for me because I enjoy the way I do things.

What do you recommend I do? How can I start changing, and break my daily routine, so I can compromise and be a great boyfriend, or husband? I know I need to be more flexible, and break my daily ways, but it has been difficult. Please help!

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