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I’m Single Now What? 6 Tips to Enter the Single Scene

I’m Single Now What? 6 Tips to Enter the Single Scene

I’m Single Now What? After being in a relationship for a while, and never having the freedom to explore, a newly single man or woman may begin to feel lost. You find yourself out of the relationship, and you may catch yourself asking: Now what? Are you unsure what to do now that you are newly single? Don’t worry we have the answers to confused daters who just entered the single scene.

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Do Men Need to Dress Their Age?? What To Avoid As a Man Over 50?

Do Men Need to Dress Their Age?? What To Avoid As a Man Over 50?

Men who are single and hopping from club to club, or party to party and are over fifty still need to remember that they are OVER fifty.

Is there a proper way for a man to dress over fifty?

Answer: Yes, there is a proper way for a man to dress over fifty.

For women over fifty, dressing like a twenty year old can backfire, and is a fashion faux pas -but can men get away with it?

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WHY YOUR AGE SHOULD NEVER STOP YOU FROM PURSUING YOUR DREAMS??

WHY YOUR AGE SHOULD NEVER STOP YOU FROM PURSUING YOUR DREAMS??

Life is worth living. A fan wrote a great letter about life, and living life. It was worthy of a post on it’s own! I smiled just reading it! Optimism exudes from his writing, and his life. I hope you all take it in 🙂

Best,

SitAlong.com

Dear SitAlong,

I may be in my fifties, but I really don’t feel like I’m in my fifties. I have so much life in me, and I want others to know the importance of living life to the full extent. My name is Brandon, and I lost my wife recently, and I thought it would be the end for me. I took some time to grieve, but then I kept thinking, that Barbara would just want me to enjoy life, and fill it up with all the experiences I can. So, I decided to pursue my dreams, and follow through.

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HOW TO TELL SOMEONE YOU LIKE THEM MORE THAN A FRIEND? 3 TIPS TO KEEP IN MIND

HOW TO TELL SOMEONE YOU LIKE THEM MORE THAN A FRIEND? 3 TIPS TO KEEP IN MIND

Dear SitAlong,

I recently realized that I like my friend MORE than just a friend. We go to the same gym, and we attend similar gatherings. Our children have always been friends. We are both divorced, but because our children were always friends, we never gave it any thought, and always act “friendly” toward each other. Now, our children are older, and I still see him around, and the truth is I like him A LOT. How do I tell him that I like him more than just a friend?

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How to determine if your relationship is official when you’re over fifty?

How to determine if your relationship is official when you’re over fifty?

Dear SitAlong,

I’ve been dating someone recently and I really enjoy his company. However, I just want confirmation that we are a couple, and that we are exclusive. I am 55 years old, and still yearn confirmation that we are exclusive. How do you recommend I approach him, and get confirmation that we are a couple?

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I Don’t Want to Admit How Old I am: HOW TO ADMIT YOUR AGE, AND OWN IT?

I Don’t Want to Admit How Old I am: HOW TO ADMIT YOUR AGE, AND OWN IT?

Hi SitAlong,

I am a woman in my fifties, and new the dating scene. I am a bit hesitant to admit my age. I get afraid to admit my age. I round down, and I know I don’t look that age. Please help me come to terms with my age. I do not want to lie about my age anymore. I want to be able to tell my date how old I am confidently. Please help! How do I admit how old I really am? How can I OWN my age?

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HOW TO ASK A RECENTLY DIVORCED WOMAN ON A DATE? HOW SOON IS TOO SOON??

HOW TO ASK A RECENTLY DIVORCED WOMAN ON A DATE? HOW SOON IS TOO SOON??

Dear SitAlong,

I’m 55 years old, and there’s a woman I know who recently divorced (about 4 months).How long do you think I should wait until I ask her out? Is it too soon?

Best,

Bernard,55 NA

Hi Bernard,

This is a great question. How long should you wait before you ask a recently divorced woman on a date? My answer is: honestly it depends on your relationship with her.

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WHY YOU SHOULD’NT SAY “YOU’RE MINE” ON VALENTINE’S DAY?

WHY YOU SHOULD’NT SAY “YOU’RE MINE” ON VALENTINE’S DAY?

Valentine’s Day is a day about love, partnership, and romance. Interestingly,a recent poll unveiled that Valentine’s Day is not about your partner BEING  all YOURS.

According to 50 women currently  in a relationship: cards, and balloons that say : “You’re Mine” sound too forward, too possessive, and feel degrading. The women say they prefer to be handed a card or balloon that says “I love You” or “You’re Beautiful”.  Susan, 53 from NH says : “Valentine’s Day is not a day for you to openly declare that your partner is YOURS, and ONLY YOURS… it’s about care, and words that show you care.”

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WHAT TO GET YOUR MAN FOR VALENTINE’S DAY?

WHAT TO GET YOUR MAN FOR VALENTINE’S DAY?

Dear SitAlong,

I am having trouble deciding what to get my partner for Valentine’s Day? We just started dating about 3 months ago, and I do not know what to get him! Please help!?

Best,

Betty, 53 NH

RESPONSE:

Hi Betty,

Below are some great ideas that a woman can gift a man. I hope it helps!

1. Men love surprised as do women. A great gift would be something you can pull off on your own. 😉  Take a trip to Victoria’s Secret, and remind your man that even though your over 50, you still have a youthful drive for him.

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HOW TO CELEBRATE THE WEEKEND BEFORE VALENTINE’S??

HOW TO CELEBRATE THE WEEKEND BEFORE VALENTINE’S??

The weekend before Valentine’s is a great opportunity for you to give your partner a sexy head start to the LOVE day on the 14TH.

BELOW ARE SOME GREAT IDEAS ON HOW YOU CAN CELEBRATE THE WEEKEND BEFORE VALENTINE’S:SU

1. GO TO THE PARK. SPARK THAT INNER LOVE BY DOING SOMETHING RELAXING TOGETHER. Go to the park today, and Sunday and walk through the park together.

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